व्यक्तित्व विकास : Personality Development Tips in Hindi

Personality Development Tips in Hindi. Kai log personality ka matlab yeh nikalte hai ki aadmi hatta katta ho aur apne powerful personality se logo ko prabhavit kar de. Agar stri hai to voh sundar ho to us ka personality “achcha” maana jaata hai.

Personality sirf dikhava hi nahi hai. Aap kaise doosre logo ke saath pesh aate hai voh bhi aap ke personality ka ek atoot hissa hai aur jyada mahatva lagta hai. Isiliye, aadmi ho ya mahila, jab voh doosre logo ke saath interact karte hai tabhi hum jaan paate hai ki us ka aachar-vyavahar kaisa hai aur yahi aachar-vyavahar hame prabhavit karte hai. Dikhava ke saath apna ap ko sanskari bhi banaye to aap ka personality fully developed mana jayega. To aaiye jaane kaise aap apna personality develop kar sakte hai yeh personality development tips in hindi ke jariye.

   # Dress aur appearance hai bahut zaruri

Koi much bhi kaha magar aap ka dikhava, dress aur appearance logo ko bahut hi prabhavit karta hai pehli nazar mein. Isiliye hamesha saaf, suthre,neat aur stylish kapde pehne. Is ke saath aap apne baalo ko bhi achchi tarah set kare aur chehre par bhi dhyan de. Purusho ko shave karna chaiye aur agar dadhi mooch rakhte hai to achi tarah se trim kare. Yeh personality development tip in hindi bahut hi important hai kyonki “first impressions are lasting impressions”.  Dress aur appearance situation ko anukool banaye yane ki aap office jaa rahe hai to office ke liye suitable poshak pehne aur party mein jaana hai to casual dress pehne. Dress aur style apne personality ko suit ho aisa hi pehne. Aine mein dekhe aur critically examine kare to aap ko pata lagega ki aap ka dress aap ke liye suitable hai ya nahin. 

Dress aur appearance bahut kuch hai personality development ke liye magar sab kuch nahin. Baaki ki baate bhi personality development ke liye itne hi mahatvapoorna hai.

   # Vyavahar ek sarika rakhe

Yeh aksar dekha gaya hai ki insaan jab us se superior position mein jo hai us se baat cheet aur vyavahar karta hai voh bilkul alag hai. Voh ek dum vinamra ban jaata hai. Aur jab voh us se “inferior” vyakti ke saath baatcheet aur vyavahar karta hai to bilkul badal jaata hai. Aisa kyon? Jab bhi aap kisi ke sath baat ya interact kare to respect de bhale us ka position koi bhi ho. Aap respect denge to aap ko respect milega. Politeness sanskaro ka ek lakshan hai.

   # Ego ko ek baaju rakh de

Log apne ego mein itne khoye hote hai ki vyavahar mein aur baato mein yeh bahar jhalak aata hai. Baat kare to bas un ke baare mein aur un ki khasiyat ki hi baate karne mein un ko interest hota hai. Jab bhi aap kisi ke saat baat kare to us vyakti ke interest ki baate kare aur us mein dilchaspi dikhaye to log aap ko like karenge. 

   # Smile karte rahiye

Kisi ko greet kare to smile kare aur baat karte vakt bhi pleasantly baat kare. Kisi ki chidchida svabhav vaala insaan pasand nahin hai.

   # Samtulit rahe

Logo ko apna hi opinion express karne mein dilchaspi hoti hai. Koi apna opinion express kare to us ke contradictory bhi baat karna hai to samtulit tarike se baat prastut kare jis se samne vale ko aisa na lage ki aap un ko galat sabit kar rahe hai. Objectively baat kare. Subjective rehne se tark-vitark khada ho jaata hai. Agar aap ka view opposite ho to bhi samne vale ko us se kya farak padta hai. Baat chit mein samtulit rehne mein aap ka hi fayda hai.

   # Doosro ki baate suniye

Aap kabhi na kabhi aise logo se mile hai jo aap ki baat ko beech mein se hi kaat ke unki hi baat chala chala karenge. Aap ko kaisa feel hua voh aap to jaante hai. Isiliye jab bhi koi kuch bhi baat kehta hai to use poora suniye dhyan se aur respond kare. Agar aap ka raay prastut karna hai to kare magar yeh na kahe ki voh galat hai. Kisi ke saath talmel banana hai to us ki baato mein dilchaspi le aur aise pesh aaye ki aap helpful hai. Yeh aap ke personality development ke liye mahatvapurna tip hai. Agar aap us ki baato mein dilchaspi dikhayenge to kal voh aap ki baat sunega.

   # Body language bahut important hai

Aap ne yeh bhi dekha hoga ki kai logo ko aadat hai ki baat karte samay haat aur pair jyaada hila hila karte hai jo bahut hi annoying sabit ho sakta hai. Isiliye jab bhi aap interact kar rahe hai, khaas kar ke office ke kaamo mein to body language sahi rakhe aur aap ka point emphasize karne ke liye haat jyaada na hilaye. Kai logo ko aadat hoti hai ki alag alag tarah ke expression chehre par laaye. Aisa bhi nahin karna chahiye. Body language aap ke andar ke emotions ke bahari expressions hai. Isiliye jyada hile dule nahin aur relax rahe.

   # Tone pe rakhe khaas dhyaan

Kai logo ko apna point emphasize karna hai to voh apna avaz ooncha bana dete hai aur aisa tone adapt karte hai ki aap ko kaano mein lagta hai. Baato mein narmi aur mithas honi chahiye. Aur bolne ka tone sahi hona chahiye. Aap ko jo kehna hai voh aap shanti aur mithas se kahenge to log prabhavit honge.Doosra aadmi galat ho to voh politely  us ko bataya jaaye to voh bhi kabool kar lega aur use bura bhi nahin lagega. Har ek baat kehne ka alag tarika hai. Gud jaisi meethi tarike se baat kahenge to voh supachya hoga isiliye yeh “graciousness” ka gun paane ke liye apne aap ko train kare.

   # Tali bajane ke liye do haat chahiye

Is ka matlab hai ki aap kisi ko help karenge to koi aap ko help karega. Jab aap apna personality develop kar rahe hai to is mein yeh helpfulness ka dhaga bhi shamil kar de. Agar logo ko aap ki jaroorat hai to voh aap ke bare mein positive sochenge aur aap ko bulayenge aur welcome karenge.

   # Naam rakhe yaad

Jab bhi aap kisi ko milte hai to introduction hota hai. Kisi ka naam hamesha yaad rakhe aur naam se pukare to achcha impression create hoga. Agar naam bhool gaye hai to us vyakti ko phir se poochiye aur naam ka upyog kare.

Doosro mein appreciate karne jaisi baate dekhe aur negative ko nahin

Har ek insaan ko apne baare mein achchi baate hi sunna pasand hai to aap unke koi bhi point ko appreciate kare to unko aap bahut achche lagenge.

   # Feedback lena hai behad zaruri

Log aap ke baare mein kya kehte hai aur sochte hai us ko aap feedback samajhiye aur yeh prayas kare ki aap ke negative points ko aap kaise nikal de aur apne personality ko aur jyaada kaise develop kare. Jaise aap ka maturity level badhega to aap ka personality bhi well-rounded hota jayega aur aap sabhi circles mein welcome honge.

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